Although a lot 90 day engagement Viewers are horrified by the sexist reaction against Emily Bieberley, but she and Kobe Blaise are still finding their way.
This means that if they try to adapt to being together as parents again after two years, they will have ups and downs.
In this clip, Emily Kobe is eager to help her with what she’s doing, and the two clash.
Things have clearly taken an ugly turn when Kobe tells Emily to “close her hair.”
Without context, it’s hard to say why Kobe Blaise is giving a damn about this horse stable.
But as for this sneak peek for season 9, episode 8 90 day engagement To begin with, he is doing so.
He and Emily Bieberley all reunite, while Emily’s mother maintains a respectable distance so she doesn’t get in the middle of the couple.
Emily is apparently eager for the two of them to be able to spend time together.
But, in his interest, he is giving too much “advice” which sounds like instructions.
In contrast to the basic defense material with Kobane, it is rarely a matter of life and death, so Kobe jumped on Emily’s advice.
“Let me do as I please, okay?” Kobe tells Emily after a little more micromanagement.
“Are you serious?” He asked. “It’s like you want us to fight on almost everything.”
Emily is clearly hurt by this, go back and say “Stop talking and do it”.
What started out as a general communication problem, Kobe told the camera was that Emily seemed to want to “control everything.”
It seemed to him that she was hurting him. To him, it seems he is ignoring helpful advice.
“I hope you just listen to me,” she reveals during the clip.
Kobe explains that he got the idea that Emily was deliberately showing a show to sit around him.
She feels that she is “just trying to let her family know that she is under my control.”
Kobe continues: “But I’m losing my temper.”
From his point of view, he is simply ignoring her advice, which he deems confusing and harmful.
So Emily tells him she won’t “help” him anymore.
He thinks he’s being rude (to be clear, they’re both rude because neither of them communicates well).
Kobe wasn’t joking when he said he was losing his temper.
“Can you just turn off the F?” He asks Emily.
Emily is shocked. Her mother, who is quite close to hear, is also shocked. This is not something that one healthy relationship tells another.
“I can’t believe you just told me,” Emily replies.
Kobe continues, saying he doesn’t need her directly around him when he’s working.
Emily annoyed, the storm stopped. Kobe says “F – k off” as he leaves. That’s … not good.
Some people work extremely well with specific instructions. Other people get annoyed when they are told how to do things. Often, there is a mixture of both.
What has happened here is that there are two conflicting styles of communication that have made each other feel rude and harmful.
Unfortunately, instead of saying anything, they both let Kobe get angry until he got hurt. It was completely preventable.