In the last weekend episode 90 day engagementPatrick Mendes has left that beautiful Austin home for his new home in Dallas.
Thais Ramon was less than happy with the move, mostly because John would still be with them.
From the beginning, fans have been concerned about Thais, especially with Patrick tracking his intruder on the phone.
Now, however, we know why he went so far as to keep track of Patrick: he cheated with her.
In this sneak peek clip of 90 Day Engagement Season 9, Episode 9, Patrick Mendes presents a gift to Thais Ramon.
“It’s not a Christmas present, but a welcome gift to America: a new phone,” he said
The phone comes with a warning: he will not give her access to his location at any moment.
Thais very clearly less satisfied.
Although he’s still going to pick up the phone (he tells her he can always refuse the gift), it almost seems like a ploy.
Meanwhile, Patrick explains that the time to track his location should end now.
Patrick – with some seemingly random bar sponsors during his first episode – realized his desire to track him down while he was in Brazil.
Now, though, she doesn’t have to guess when she’ll sleep in her bed, because she’s in the same bed.
“It gives me a lot of anxiety, love,” Patrick explains.
“It feels bad when I’m with someone and they love my life,” Patrick explains.
“And they don’t believe me,” he continued. “It doesn’t look good.”
It was then that Thais reminded Patrick that his concerns about his fidelity were not out of thin air.
Thais notes that Patrick once gave her reasons for not believing.
Patrick dismisses it as “in the past”, but he presses her to admit on camera why he’s so worried.
That’s when he said he “talked to a girl” early in his relationship with Thais. But is this the truth?
But if what he did was talk to another woman, the only thing he would do with his mouth, you know, is word formation and voice.
Thais says that’s not the case since he’s been in a relationship with her.
Patrick objects, correcting his story by saying that what they did was “kiss”, but not a kiss, Patrick.
Patrick tries to do some emotional gymnastics: “I think it’s different, like you have sex with a girl when you kiss her.”
One, hook up is a deliberately vague (and directly included) term that can mean anything from four-person shower sex to make out.
So, yes, they hook up.
Two, you can’t usually decide that what you did physically with the other person is not cheating.
You and your partner (s) set those boundaries together.
So, yes, it was cheating, even if some relationship doesn’t think kissing is cheating – with which Thais and Patrick have nothing to do.
Patrick doesn’t take it seriously, it seems, but Thais is clearly hurt.
On the one hand, he can’t and shouldn’t hold it in his head forever – either let him regain your faith, or let him go.
At the same time, he should take his feelings seriously, even if it does not include tracking his whereabouts.
Patrick is a handsome man who makes good money, so his behavior should be unpleasant for most 90 day engagement Fans dislike him.
(Case in point: Bilal and Lifetime movie plot which he has given to Shaida)
But that doesn’t mean that Thais (who, as an attractive young woman with an accent, is baiting the worst elements of phantom) is a bad guy, even irrational.