Selma Blair describes sexual harassment by the dean of her boarding school: ‘She

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Selma Blair It is open about a traumatic experience from his younger years.

In his new memoirs I mean babyThe Legally blonde The star has become clear about the pain she faced after being sexually harassed by a high school administrator as a teenager.

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One of them recalls his relationship with Dean Cranbrook The boarding school she attended in Bloomfield Hills, Michigan, the actress wrote:

“I depend on him for everything. I really can’t believe my good fortune to have such an excellent mentor and friend. The only part I didn’t enjoy was the weeding and cultivating. That was it. “

Describing her “faithful” man, the star wrote:

“I thought he was the biggest man I’ve ever met. Handsome. Tall. So generous I’m sure you can see where all this is going. But at the time, I couldn’t predict it. I believe the authorities. I was just a teenager. “

The incident took place on the eve of his New Year’s winter break. Blair said he went to his office to exchange gifts, but when they went to say goodbye, Dean made a very inappropriate move.

He wrote:

“We hugged. It felt very long and very calm and very calm. His hand moved to the short side of my back, tracing the space just above the bone of my tail. His lips were in my mouth. Please, I thought. Please under my pants. Don’t go, my dress-code-approved Ralph Lauren Khakis so I carefully pulled a plaid shirt. You’re an adult and I love you; please don’t put your hand inside my pants. But he did. It was a simple thing. He raped me. He did not threaten me, but he did break me. Nothing else happened, but I never felt safe. “

To make matters worse, Selma’s mother told him to keep quiet about the matter. He continued:

“I took a deep breath when I told my mother she kissed me. ‘You don’t have to tell anyone. She is a favorite in that school. And you will just be a restless girl. . . I’m sorry. ‘ At the end of my senior year, he came to congratulate me on winning a writing award. Then he turned to my mother and said, ‘You must be proud.’ She just stared at him, rocky. Then: ‘I know what you have done. Stay away from my daughter. ‘ He left. “

Although she will always try to recover from the experience, the 49-year-old said she would not let it affect how she sees her romantic future – even though she is currently less focused on dating and more focused on being a single mother to her 10-year-old son. ArthurWhom he shares with the former Jason Blick.

He explained:

“I had some wonderful relationships where there was no drama. But I don’t think so [future romantic relationships]. I know with all that life can bring, I never really say ‘never’ to some things – I never say alcohol – and there are some things for which the dance card is unequivocally full, but I will never say [to a relationship]. That’s where my strength lies. Everything is with Arthur now.

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